
You perceive your life.
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You’re Not Living Your Life—You’re Perceiving It
Welcome to the space between your thoughts and what’s true.
This isn’t a blog that gives answers.
It’s a mirror—to help you ask better questions.
Because here’s what changes everything:
You don’t experience reality.
You experience your interpretation of it.
This is about wiping the smudges off your lens— (From Concrete to Glass)
or at least noticing they’re there.
We’ll examine the stories you’ve inherited and adopted,
and maybe, in the cracks between them, find something like freedom.
What if the life you want isn’t ahead of you?
What if it’s here—disguised as the life you’ve been ignoring?
If you’re the kind of person who pauses at why,
who feels the weight of unexamined rules,
or who’s tired of chasing a version of life that never arrives—
Stop controlling. Start seeing.