Believe it or not, how you judge yourself is more important than how you are judged by other people because you create your self- confidence through that judgement. If you spend your life telling yourself what you cannot do, your subsoncsious will make sure you can’t do any of those things. If, on the other hand you spend your life telling yourself you can accomplish anything, you will accomplish every goal you set for yourself because you have that self belief built into your psyche.
This is a great example of how it works: The person who says they can’t give up smoking will always be a smoker because they have defined themselves as a smoker. The smoker who is determined not to be a smoker will give them up because they have defined themselves as a non-smoker.
Rember, “you’re only limited by your own beliefs. What you believe you can accomplish; will be accomplished.”
A healthy body will bring you everywhere, a wealthy mind will ensure you can get there in comfort and a rich heart will ensure you’re enjoying your journey with the right people.
The day you find yourself is a day you will never forget. You are everything you thought you were, and you’re capable of being everything you thought you wouldn’t be.

Everybody has emotions, but not everybody deals with their emotions in a positive way because they weren’t taught how to manage them as children.
Love is a positive emotion, but it can be a destructive emotion, too, if that person’s love is not reciprocated.
The following emotions can have a positive or negative effect depending on how the emotion is used.
Emotions such as fear, sadness, trust, and fear can be destructive or constructive depending on how we use them.
The following are examples of how those emotions can be used to benefit people in a positive way;
Anger at not receiving a promotion can be channelled into beginning a further education programme.
Overcoming a fear will have a long-lasting positive effect on your self-respect.
Overcoming trust issues will lead to positive, long-lasting relationships.
Learning that sadness is your way of saying, “I loved something so much it now hurts because it has gone away.”
It’s good to love, and understanding this will mean you will possess a loving outlook on life.
I don’t have to give examples of how your emotions can be used destructively. All you have to do is watch the evening news any day of the week.
I’ll leave you with one final thought.
“Live long, live well, and live a positive life.”
Only people who have money and a few genuinely inciteful people can understand that having money does not mean you are rich because enduring or real riches can’t be bought. Real riches are the enduring qualities we possess that make waking up every morning a wonderful experience.
What are enduring riches?
Real riches is a positive mental attitude towards life including everything and everybody you share your life with.
Having a healthy body that allows you to get up every morning without help from anybody else, without enduring pains or aches is a riches most people ignore until it is taken away from them by some disease.
Living in a house with people you love, and who love you is another form of riches people ignore until they fall out with their house mates and spend their days trying to avoid them.
Having the ability to hope for a better future is another form of riches; people whose daily lives consist of hoping for a meal that day, or people who hope to get a better paying job. People who have given up on life live in a world where there is no hope.
One of the greatest forms of riches is being paid to do what you love to do. Writers love to write, painters love to paint, nurses love to help make people better; if your career has led you to fulfull your calling, you are wealthy.
Having a, “live and let live attitude,” is another form of enduring riches because it means somebody else’s words and actions will never get you down, you understand that everybody is entitled to an opinion and even if you disagree with it, that’s okay.
The greatest of all the enduring riches is the ability to calm your mind because, in this life the greatest battles you will ever fight are fought inside your own head.
Of course having money is a form of enduring riches too because you will always be more comfortable crying in the back of a warm limozine than you will be if you’re crying on the cold ground.
