People are multi-layered, there’s a different person for every occasion.

Your work colleagues will see one version of you, your family will know another version, your friends will see a different side of your personality and when you’re at home by yourself you will know a different version of you. Not necessarily the real you for that person resides deep within your subconscious mind and only emerges when you’re challenged.
“You’ll never know how strong you are until being strong is the only option.”