“Happy people attract More reasons to be happy into their lives.”
A good quote for this message is;
“Be pleasant until ten o’clock in the morning and the rest of the day will take care of itself.” ~Elbert Hubbard
Month: Nov 2017
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Positive thoughts lead to positive actions which leads to a positive life.
Everybody can relate to these life goals by Napoleon Hill 
Listen to people who inspire you to be a better person. 
Be a leader not a dictator. 
He who has not failed has learned nothing. 
Believe in your own abilities. 
Nobody can live your life for you. 
What’s meant to be will be. 
This is your motto. 
Accept the fact that people will enter and leave your life. 
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Our conscious thoughts communicate with our subconscious mind in ways scientists have not discovered and from the number of theories on how the mind works, it’s not going to happen any time soon but the one thing everybody agrees on, the subconscious mind is incredibly powerful so you should send it as many positive messages as you can.
Your conscious thought is the project manager, painter and decorator of your life, everything you think about colours how you see the people and the world around you. You can see the world as perfect or imperfect; it will not change the world but it can have enormous effect on the world you see.
An imperfect world; if you think everybody around you is stupid, a bitch, a bastard or all three, all your subconscious mind understands is you associate with this behaviour and influence you to become like them or you will develop a defensive behaviour to not be one of these people. In both cases your behaviour has changed for the wrong reason, and not always in a good way.
A perfect world; if you think everybody around you is perfect just the way they are (warts and all), you will see people for who they are without judging them. Your subconscious mind will think everybody is perfect and will influence you to be the best possible version of you.
In both situations the world hasn’t changed but your attitude towards the world changes a great deal. When you see the world as negative, it influences you negatively; when you see the world as positive, you are influenced in a positive way.
Below are some of my favourite quotes on the topic especially the last one.
- “The positive or negative judgments we have of ourselves is one of the greatest barriers to success we build.” ~Andrew Strong.
- “If you realized how powerful your thoughts are, you would never think a negative thought.” ~Anon
- “The subconscious mind is the builder, plumber and electrician; the conscious mind is the project manager, painter and decorator.” ~Brendan Dunne.
- “Your body is a reflection of every conscious thought you’ve communicated to your subconscious mind.” ~Brendan Dunne.
- “The reason man may become the master of his own destiny is because he has the power to influence his own subconscious mind.” ~Napoleon Hill
- “Act with purpose, courage, confidence, competence and intelligence until these qualities ‘lock in’ to your subconscious mind.” ~Brian Tracy
- “Our subconscious minds have no sense of humor, play no jokes and cannot tell the difference between reality and an imagined thought or image. What we continually think about eventually will manifest in our lives.” ~Robert Collier
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The only way life can disappoint you is to expect the people you interact with to be more than they are capable of being. The following are a few guidelines for a more contented life.
- “If you expect nothing from somebody you are never disappointed.” ~Anon
- “Blessed is he who expects nothing, for he shall never be disappointed.” ~Anon
- “When you stop expecting people to be perfect, you can like them for who they are.” ~Anon
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The people who claim they are normal have to work exceptionally hard every day to keep up that persona; they have to find out what’s popular. Dress in the same clothes as everybody else, just not on the same day as they are. Watch what everybody is watching. Listen to what everybody is listening to. Find out what opinions are normal and what is politically correct; as opposed to the people who claim they are different, all they have to do is act like themselves, buy what they like and read what they are interested in. The option to be different seems a simple decision to make but only a few choose this path.
I don’t know if I’d like to be normal. Some of my favourite quotes on this particular topic are;
- “One of the greatest regrets in life is being what others would want you to be, rather than being yourself.” ~ Shannon L. Alder
- “They laugh at me because I’m different; I laugh at them because they’re all the same.” ~Kirk Cobain.
- “Care about what other people think and you will always be their prisoner.” Lao Tzu
- “I think everybody’s weird. We should all celebrate our individuality and not be embarrassed or ashamed of it.” —Johnny Depp
- “I think the reward for conformity is everybody likes you except for yourself.” ~Rita Mae Brown
- “Be yourself, everybody else is already taken.” ~Oscar Wilde
