Nobody owns a cat, they do as they please or they leave.

Cats, the epitome of indifference. Here’s an interesting question.
Should people be more like cats or dogs?

Nobody owns a cat, they do as they please or they leave.

Cats, the epitome of indifference. Here’s an interesting question.
Should people be more like cats or dogs?
The world and everything on it including us is in a constant state of vibration. If our eyes could perceive those vibrations we’d see we’re constantly flickering in and out of existence. Those vibrations create a wave of energy which can be felt by people who are vibrating at the same frequency as us and that’s why when you get a shiver down your spine that’s someone else sending you an vibrational message. Most messages are sent and received during sleep because that’s when we’re more open to vibrational messages.

The thing to remember is everyone’s vibrations are based on their thoughts. Negative thoughts create negative vibrations which means they’ll attract negativity while positive thoughts create positive vibrations which attract positivity.
This means you’re in control what you attract into your life. For your sake, think as positive as possible whenever you can.
The inability to let down your barriers and allow someone else into your life is an automated response built up during your childhood. It’s normally the result of unexplained trauma. The subconscious mind has put in place a border that will not be easily passed, and should someone get passed your walls, if they abuse the privilege they’ve been given the walls will re-emerge and push them outside of the danger zone once more. Can the person’s conscious mind change this outcome? That’s a question each individual will have to answer.

The reason it happens is our subconscious minds prime purpose is to keep us safe from perceived threats to our peace of mind. If you’ve been let down by people when you’re young and innocent, it will leave a scar that no amount of reassurance will remove regardless of how much time has passed. If you’ve experienced an idyllic childhood and the trauma happened after puberty, there’s a very good chance you’ll go from one relation to another without losing hope of a happy ever after.
Your subconscious learned the hard way that if it didn’t allow you to put yourself into a situation where you had to rely somebody else, you would be safe. This, however, is a double edged sword because if the barriers are that strong, nothing and I mean nothing gets in or out. You don’t get to experience happiness or sadness, and if you do, you don’t have anybody to share it with because it’s ingrained into your psyche that other people can’t be trusted with your emotions.
They can’t be trusted with your emotions because you’re not prepared to let them see your vulnerability.
Can someone with trust issues ever have a fulfilling relationship with another person? The answer is yes, but that’s a story for a different day.

If every wise saying was true we’d live on a very different world, everyone would learn from their mistakes and inequality wouldn’t exist any more. However, as a very wise man once said, “history shows that we do not learn from history.” -Georg Hegel.
Maybe, one day, you never know.
The words you use influence my thoughts.

Whether your Words have a positive or negative influence is dependent upon if, “you speak because you have something to say or you speak because you have to say something.” -Plato.