Everybody has their own reality. That reality can be positive or negative depending on the observer’s point of view.
What is your own reality?
Your reality is based on your perception (which is unique to you)of who you are. Believe it or not, the first step in learning about your own reality is learning which of your beliefs is someone else’s reality. (If you go to enough funerals, you’ll find most people have a heart of gold)

Reality is learned.
Reality is learned. That means your reality is constantly changing as you acquire more knowledge about who you are. As your understanding of yourself changes, your perception of the world 🌎 changes, too.
Positive reality
A positive reality is enjoyed by Positive people who have a firm grip on their own reality, which means they will not be affected by other people’s insults or compliments because they are very aware of their own strengths and weaknesses.(Their reality) I’ll leave you with one final thought.
A positive reality is based on looking at the world from the inside out, whereas someone who’s living in a negative reality is affected by everyone else’s opinions.
P.S. Be an observer of your own reality before trying to see someone else’s reality.