Emotions are fluid in that they are always fluctuating. Here, one minute and gone the next. That’s why people should never make life-changing decisions when they’re feeling emotional. Just so we’re clear, what you’re going to wear on a night out is not a life-changing decision, and neither is what iron you’re going to use for your next shot. Sorry, I digressed for a moment. Let’s continue.
The decision you make when you’re feeling lonely can be the wrong decision when you’re not feeling lonely. In fact, that decision could leave you feeling depressed and that’s worse than feeling lonely.
You can interchange any emotion you like into that paragraph, and the message will be the same. So, what is the right frame of mind to make life-changing decisions.
The right frame of mind for making life-changing decisions is one of balance and clarity. This involves being aware of your emotions but not solely driven by them. It’s important to consider the situation objectively. Do a Ross Geller from Friends and compile a list of pros and cons. Ask someone who has experienced the same situation for advice. Make sure your decision aligns with your values and long-term goals.
In essence: A calm and rational mindset, free from extreme emotional highs or lows, can often lead to better decision-making.
In a nutshell or not. Take as much time as you need to ensure that you’re making the right decision for you. And it’s worth remembering that it’s never too late to change your mind if the decision you make turns out to be the wrong decision.
