Believing in a spiritual relationship will keep you company even when you’re alone.
We’re living at a time where science is creating more ways to divide and isolate people rather than bring them together. Science is also revealing how humanity evolved. Spirituality, as a result, is losing its grip on people. However, that’s not necessarily a good thing because belief is a powerful force for good when you remove the physical element that exists within humanity.
Everything you do is the right thing to do, even if you change your mind later.
It’s a simple way of looking at the theory of life. However, there are far-reaching consequences to living your life using that philosophy, such as:
1. Living Without Regret
The philosophy allows you to accept that every action you take aligns with your current understanding, values, and circumstances. When you later gain new experiences or insights that might change your view, it doesn’t invalidate your past choices. Instead, those choices were necessary steps that brought you to this new awareness.
2. Self-Trust and Authenticity
By believing that “everything you do is the right thing to do,” you develop a deep trust in yourself. You start acting based on what feels true to you, rather than what others might expect or approve of. This builds a sense of authenticity because your actions stem from your real values and feelings rather than fear of making the “wrong” decision.
3. Embracing Change as Growth
When you change your mind or take a different path, it’s not a sign of failure or inconsistency; it’s growth. Our beliefs and desires evolve as we do. This philosophy encourages you to honour that evolution and to view each change of mind as a positive shift rather than a betrayal of your past self.
4. Forgiving Yourself for Past Mistakes
Often, regret arises from feeling that we made “wrong” choices. But if every choice was simply right for that particular moment, then there’s less room for self-blame. This perspective allows for self-compassion, making it easier to forgive past mistakes and move forward without being bogged down by them.
5. Viewing Life as a Learning Journey
In this philosophy, life is a process of discovery rather than a pursuit of perfection. Each action, each change of heart, contributes to the mosaic of who you are becoming. This attitude makes it easier to see life as a journey, where each step holds meaning and contributes to personal growth.
In essence, this philosophy encourages aligning with your present reality, accepting yourself fully in each moment, and believing that life unfolds with purpose, even if that purpose remains unclear and it’s always open to change.
P.S. The title, “The Review from Your Future,” is entirely accurate for most people because the decisions they make only seem to make sense when they’re looking back at them.
1. Your expectations are important.
2. You will never be too important to not clean up after yourself.
3. You need to be able to manage with the money you’ve got.
4. Nobody really cares if your curtains match your furniture.
5. Your grand plans will keep your mind occupied whilst you get on with your mundane life.
6. You will experience hurt and pain. They will be caused by the people you care about the most.
7. The perfect time doesn’t exist.
8. There are no guarantees in life.
9. You will believe that other people know what they’re doing.
The most important thing you need to identify in life is what you can fix because you could waste a lifetime trying to fix something or someone that’s not within your power to fix.
The following is a list of things that’s typically beyond most people’s control:
1. Other people’s thoughts and opinions – First impressions are real. However, we can’t change how others perceive or judge us. We can only put our best foot forward.
2. The past – No matter what, the past is unchangeable; we can only influence the present, and in doing so, maybe the future.
3. Other people’s actions – We can’t control how others behave, only how we respond to their words and actions.
4. Natural events and disasters – Events like weather, natural disasters, and climate changes are out of our control. A volcano will keep erupting until it’s depleted its energy.
5. Unexpected life changes – illness, accidents, or sudden changes in circumstances can happen without warning. Nobody can predict the future.
6. Global events – Wars, political changes, and economic downturns are often beyond individual control.
7. The family we’re born into – Contrary to some folklore, people do not get to choose their family.
8. Time – We can’t speed up or slow down time; it flows at its own pace.
9. Mortality and ageing – The ageing process is beyond humanity’s ability to control. Some people may alter their appearance, but that doesn’t change their age.
10. Other people’s beliefs and values – It’s out of our control to change someone’s deeply held beliefs or values.
When we acknowledge what we can’t control, it helps us focus our efforts on things within our power, leading to a more balanced, fulfilling life.
You need to be aware of negativity in your life because you can’t heal what you don’t recognise. The reason is in the following paragraph.
Awareness is the first step to growth and healing. Recognizing negativity, whether it’s self-doubt, limiting beliefs, or toxic influences, gives us the power to address it. When we ignore or suppress these things, they tend to manifest in other ways, often creating more challenges in our lives. But by acknowledging and understanding the negative, we create space for self-compassion and transformation. It’s like shining a light into a dark corner—the awareness alone can make way for healing.
