One of the most important questions you will answer about anything during your lifetime is, “It matters” or “It doesn’t matter?”
If you determine that something doesn’t matter, then you can let it go and get on with focusing on the things that matter.
It matters.
Once you determine that something matters. You need to write down a list of reasons as to why it matters.
The next step is to determine if it’s within your power to change anything about the person, place, or thing that matters.
The next step is to determine if you have the motivation, conviction, and drive to complete the changes that are necessary.

Remember; everything that changes your life in a meaningful way will come at a cost. If you’re prepared to pay the price, then you will change whatever you want to change.