People can learn to love emotional pain so much that they refuse to let it go. You see, anger, stress, grief, and fear become part of their identity (It’s the victim mentality). However, people need to be careful because emotional pain can become physical pain if they don’t make peace with their emotions.

This phenomenon is known as the mind-body connection. Stress from unresolved emotions can activate the body’s fight-or-flight response, leading to prolonged muscle tension, inflammation, or even conditions like migraines, digestive issues, or chronic fatigue.
Over time, the unprocessed emotional burden becomes like a weight the body carries, causing physical symptoms.
Making peace with emotions—through expression, therapy, mindfulness, or other healing practices—can help release this tension and bring both emotional and physical relief. It’s a reminder that healing the mind is often key to healing the body.